Thursday, May 6, 2010

What, one is supposed to do in early twenties?

Rather a tougher question this time.Put it to highly workaholic and over ambitious parent draining out himself to help his child to turn out into a so called "capable scholar" to make it into IITs.He comes out with, in fact , next to impossible answers like "One,who is in his early twenties, has to go through scientific magazines rather than those fucking star filled "funtertainment" pages in daily newspapers".Just go to a student who made it into one of prestigious technical colleges and bring out the topic of the above mentioned reply of an average parent.He laughs his ass off.WTF..!! believe ,he carries off that.He says out so easily that you will be deceived and you tend to fall in a misconception that ,Is the answer given by the young fella', so obvious and certain? Ahem! may be not!
What went wrong with the 70's Indian youth is ,they lacked cult.They either lacked education or they lacked cult.I am not here to declare that antonym of education is 'cult'.They cant stay together,thats it.Did u ever find any man of our fathers' age listening to Carnatic music and smoking "Classic Milds" in his balcony? Here,again,I am not saying that smoking is a 'cult'ured thing.Go,roam on roads and you will be able to find handful of hippies ,earphones plugged in their ears,Ozzy going crazy in the background,suddenly,they stop it by seeing a friend,they'll start discussing about the robotics and Ferrari,but by holding a cigarette in one hand and road side made coffee in the other.There, u find cult.There, you find fire.There you find restlessness in their eyes to make a dent on this universe.
I am here,jobless and running out of at least one single my "own" penny( not my father's) and I am ready to bet for even million bucks to show me a guy going through sci- fi magazines early in the morning.They booze.They let out their heart.They laugh their asses off.They give their everything for the ones they love and yes,they do watch cricket now even if they have their final examination tomorrow.That is how they'll be and that is how they are supposed to be.Try to disturb that and the entire process of life's settlement goes shattered down.
Few things parents expect their children to do :-
a) they want their children to be home within half an hour after finishing their class

b) they want their children to be at home and help out them in handling different issues

c) they wan their children to hit their sacks probably by 10 in the night and get up early in the morning and get ready for a jog.

d) a bit workaholic parents want their children to master programming skills during their vacations.

e)Say no to parties and yes to family dinners.



What is going to come next is very important because that is what they want it the way and that is what its gonna happen finally :-

1) they say that there's a class on sunday too,a reason to get out of home and meet friends.If that is the case,forget about coming home immediately after class.

2)man,WTF are we supposed to do at home if there's nothing happening over there?

3)Ask parents to come out with them in nights and ask them to check out how beautiful and amazing Hyderabad looks at night?!

4) what if some lad is interested in doing a management project but he's forced to join ADVANCED CORE JAVA class?? We'll do what we like and pour all we have into it!

5)One can find no fifty year old man going out to a late night party.ANd yes,There's loads of time left to have lunches and dinners with so called "families".

I am pretty happy that I could at least provide a bit information whats one is supposed to do in his early twenties.

P.S :- this post is only for those guys are cheating themselves by acting according to their guardian's wish and will and losing their lives.Bastards,u have only one chance to live.Live your lives.Not others'.
and for the rest of people who are in their most productive and happy period period of their lives,I NEED NOT TELL YOU GUYS..!!

18 comments:

  1. The best line of da entire post is Live your lives,not others :)!!

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  2. first, check the post for mistakes before u post it.
    no offence, WTF's wrong with you!? why the hell do u want to define how others are supposed to live their twenties?? and like you said if they'd live their twenties smoking and drinking tea at stalls on the roads, we'd only be making ashok the next ambani...why is it that you think that the way you see things has got to be the way other do?..
    i know a few people...divesh...milan...who're working their ass of doing the so called "technical bullshit" just because they like it and they want to do something with their lives...
    and i think a public place is an awfully inappropriate place to disgrace your dad...and if you really are expecting comments on this because i saw your status on face book...you should realize that life will shove shit in your face sooner or later..think before you talk. Think of the ramifications of your actions which could have disastrous effects on your life to come.

    i read your blog after ages, you've been a big disappointment.

    it's sad to say that the person once i used to call a close friend of mine is being a jerk and is riding an ass around town...ruining his own rep.

    ciao man. hope this changes something, people especially your family have high expectations, and better than anyone else you know how talented you're...stop being a FUCKING WANNABE AND DO SOMETHING USEFUL WITH IT!!

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  3. @ anirudh :: i was speaking about cult and at nowhere i disgraced my father.I dont to want to be a usual "infosys" worker going to his workplace before the sun rises up and be back home even after the night watchman sleeps.I dont think sitting at ashok would spoil one's life and yeah,even i mentioned it there...i dont mean that smoking is a 'cult'ured thing....i was just speaking about the classic hippie people usual rituals and with them we wud be able to distinguish between them and the others.I like to booze,i want to laugh out loud and live my life the way it comes to me.ANd all one can do is the same thing.U are destined and brought here.U cant change one's or ur's destiny anirudh.
    coming to me...I was same and will be the same always.Its always people's perspective looking at me.Even this was proved at few instances with few of my friends! I cant help it if u find me changed into a lousy bastard.
    And i never wanted to change or direct someone's life who are in their early twenties or something.I just meant it the way is sounds! And even i m not sure abt the guys u mentioned doing their so called "techincal bullshit" could turn out into a pretty successful guys down the lane.
    Go check few guys whom u can find in every other cafe ,though they smoke or dont,i give a damn..u cand find fire and rays of hope in their eyes!

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  4. Our comments hardly relate. I don't think I'm able to drive the point home, so I'll just stop trying...

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  5. probably thats my perspective and urs mite be diffenrent altogehter..no issues! leave it here!

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  6. @Deekshith:
    If anyone asked me to live my life according to how they want me to, I'd ask them to fuck themselves, even if it were my dad. I'm obviously referring to the serious things in life.

    P.S- Don't ask me what those serious things are. If you have a life you'll probably know what I'm talking about.

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  7. @ rajiv :: m not asking or demanding or directing anyone how to live their life...i m just making it clear that how a youngster's life is gonna be in his twenties and i declared that it is how it should be! thats it!

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  8. wah!!! awesome man! i cant tell u which line is more impressive bcoz i hav 4 or 5 at the same level. superb!

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  9. @ jai krishna :: huh....thanx mate...but i guess this is the first time ever i m seeing ur comment on my blog...how did u know me and my blog eh??

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  10. I saw you in jai's followers list... your posts r interesting and i started following you..!

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  11. rofl...thanx! and yeah,i dont think i m such a worth following blogger..do u?

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  12. deekshith, if i can, i have a piece of advice. for 15 days, quit reading everything, quit talking to a lot of people and if possible, spend a lot of time with yourself. then come back and blog. you'll feel better.

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  13. @ aditya :: i need a precise,relevant comment on the post,i didnt get it!

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  15. rajeev, i know this isn't the right platform to talk about this, but since you started it, take it. one, disgracing people in public forums or blogs ain't cool. and two, who are you kidding. i read your blog. grow up.

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  16. @Sirish:
    one, you don't get to decide whats cool.
    two, thanks, but you should also note that I read your blog and I ain't bitching about it. :)

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