Thursday, September 22, 2011

The much needed talk.

Being fed up with the presumed out-of-the-box ideologies of few people, been searching out for a proper vent out session with some one who happens to be a great friend and equally a great listener as well. Sirsh buzzed up at the peak time, demanding a conversation which both of us hoped to join that league of our conversations which pumped much needed levels of confidence and soothing feeling in us. And yeah, eventually, this one too, joined the league, in style of course. Now, I feel good and light.

It all started by bumping into that area of complaints people file against the ones who sound extremely normal and ordinary, especially when the latter ones have been there, done that, gone through and back on to the path of normalcy. A bunch of spoiled brats getting together, stereotyping the happenings of people's lives, taking time out of their ill schedules to run spoofs and making fun out of nothing. Sadly, one day, realization takes place and one point would be made clear in the history again. All this would take them nowhere. They stand there, watching people pacing forward. Way forward.

As sirish emphasized on something very strongly, there's nothing like being unique through bullying around something, you were born as X and yes, you remain X and you die the same X. That's absolutely pointless in setting up some false benchmarks and standards to become someone.

Later on, it moved on to something which is identically ideological. Standing up for selves. There occurs a point in everyone's life when they feel the need to prove something to their selves, rather than proving something to this world. They go around, talk, blabber, about who all they look up to with extra ordinary levels of admiration and respect, what all they want to do etc. Few years down the lane, after a very normal, long and tiresome day, they hit bed, covered themselves up in a duvet, which separates them from the rest of the world, I am so certain that this question occupies their mind about their own potential and calibre and has it showed a remarkable impact on them, the dawn would break into a new day, and the day stands as the synonym for something called 'initiative'. I know quite a few jobless souls going through that phase right now, but I sincerely hope they'd outgrow that too, very soon and stand up for themselves for something noteworthy and significant. After all, every phase is a passing cloud and yeah, People outgrow everything eventually.

Well, art of conversing is something very underrated and very much overlooked according to Sirish, and I too second that in concurrence. Nothing would get close to the light hearted feeling you experience after a much need conversation with a good old friend of yours, and I am experiencing it right now, to the fullest. Conversations, which follow the purpose, rather than means, and which prioritise gist over arguments are the ones which make you feel confident and soulful.


Sirish, you'd be one of those few reasons which compel me to come back, I tell you. Long live, boy!

7 comments:

  1. The art of conversation is so unique, the topics flowing endlessly.Its very few who can excel in it and the rest rake their heads for topics and substitute them with "what else".... how unfortunate to even face such a moment between friends....weird uncomfortable silences for lack of topics
    As for the topics themselves, covered by you, a whole three pager would be required to explain what i feel.
    Good piece as always.........

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  2. Thanks for the acknowledgment, one more ill scheduled spoof coming in your way.!!
    Hip Hip Hurrayy!!

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  3. @Save Earth: You aren't half as bad as you think you are. just read the blog. pretty funny.

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  4. @save earth: hahaha, keep 'em coming. I well know you've got no other work than this.

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