This is one of the hardcore deepest topics I ever wanted to discuss with you guys...As soon as the word "victim" reaches my eardrums,there in my brain,takes place a brain mapping 'victim-Sourav Ganguly'.One of the peoples' best ways of getting their things done by so called inefficient,i m sorry,people who cannot defend themselves is Victimization.But as in terms of ethical optimists,people who are victimized are not victims,but who victimize are the real victims in the hands of their own destiny.They are the most inefficient,i m glad,this time i've used the word in correct phrase n place,people who are incapable of egtting their things done,but are uqite capable enough in very mean act(art infact) of probing the other people 2 get their pendings off.Alas,they are the real handicapped.Susane Dyer,wrote a foreword to the book by Dr.Wayne W. Dyer,"Pulling Your Own Strings", "many of us with normal faculties have mentally handicapped ourselves and victimized ourselves by belief systems".FANTASTIC.You guys gotcha remember one thing."There is no one thing as WELL ADJUSTED SLAVE".Being victimized arises from a very small aperture.Its lack of adequate self-confidence.Never give a man to be a victor(not in the sense to commit you as a victim).Ordinary people always fall as a prey to be a victim.Who said you are otdinary?
Just kept an Electronics text book in front of me,as to create a senti factor infront of mah mom that i m studying.The particular page i opened contained some stuff about 'oscillators'.A man's mental strapheny always oscillates from "operating from strength" to "operating from weakness".Life is all about how he stays most of his time in "operating from weakness" period.These days,I came to know something worthy."Whenever you hold another person above yourself,you have set yourself up to be victimized."
Eliminating victim traps in which you are held and controlled by others,on in which you are unnecessarily frustated about the way your decisions are turning out ,accordng to me,involves a four part program.....
a) learning how to size up your life situations
b) developing a strong set of non victim expectations and attitudes
c) brcoming aware of the most prevalent kinds of victimizations in your life
d) creating a set of principles upon which you promise yourself,you never let them off in any of the worst circumstances for atleast your sake.
Atlast guys,you will become a non victim only when you stop expecting to be victimized.signing off here for today.......
