CONNEXIONS

After all,man is a social animal.The connections he have are developed as a result of intimacies he possess with other 'animals'.As of what I have been thinking for a long time,a person to exist in the race of supremacy,say ,success is putting his relations at cost of it.I am very sorry to say that.Introverts,who cant mingle easily with other people,atleast expect to have 1 meal a day with their family.How could it be possible?Their wants are becoming desires.There's lot of difference b/w want and desire.Want is a basic need.Desire....?You guys know that...
In the writs of Indian authors,loads of emphasis has been laid on relations and connections.Earlier,a family meant 2 consist of atleast 4 people.That looked pretty cute.In the fuckin' name of 'urbanization'everybody,everything has lost its grace,glory.Now,sorry for that,if at all one member of a family expires,come on,who cares?mourning for a couple of days(may be forced) and getting on with their lives as usual.Even I agree with optimists' argument of getting on with lives no matter what happens as a course of time.And even everybody have developed the confidence of living on their own terms and they are just cultivating 'damn!who cares?' attitude.Its obviously good partially living on one's self terms without any support and the attitude matters a lot.Its affecting relationships,of course,in a bad way.Living on their own feet doesnt mean they dont need a family anymore.At the end of the day,every person need somebody to share their achievements,griefs and all.Everything. Of course,its beautiful to end a long working day with a glass of wine(as people say,I am not into it....rofl!) in the company of atleast two worthy friends.But sorry to say this again,they are friends ,after alll.
I admire my mom a lot for her strong belief in human connexions.She talks a lot about realtionships.But the beautiful part is,'she walks her talk'.She'll be always ready to make new friends,which is not at all possible with me.She finds it soothing to get wished 'good morning' by her always-a-new-friend whom she made friendship with,in the walking in the park,the previous evening.
People are becoming too busy to hold long term relationships these days.It sounds beautiful to encounter an old friend of ours almost after a decade with a sparkle smile on both of the glad faces.aint it?But now,who remembers whom?If I am asked,I always find it very refreshing to meet Sandy atleast after 1 month of our previous meeting in Blue Bird Cafe(B.B.C,as we lovingly call it as) over a cup of hot Irani chai.I feel elated that I've met one of worthy friends I have.Even ,same is the case with Sirish,Raghav,Rohith and Anirudh.
It might be stale pizza or a cold coffee,but sharing it with our 'connexions'.....oh my God....it tastes awesome.At the end of your life,if you turn out to be a billionaire and you've got no one to share your reminiscences,even then you gonna die poor! Take care mate!